The Role of Feedback

When you’re doing creative projects, it’s important to get feedback along the way.  Feedback helps you change course if necessary.  It helps you align your creative projects with what people want.  It shows you ways you can improve.  It gives you ideas.  It can give you inspiration.  Constructive feedback helps everyone. Constructive feedback fosters alignment […]

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Social Rules Still Apply During Social Distancing

With social distancing, there will likely be more people connecting online than ever.  Social rules still apply. Giving value to online conversations and valuing yourself still applies. Looking to give vs get and seeking to understand vs trying to be understood still applies. Starting up conversations and platforms for conversations to happen still applies. Making […]

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What Do You Think About This?

This post is about ways people of authority can turn your volume down growing up as a kid. If there are too many forces that turned the volume down on your voice, it can lead you to believe your thoughts and feelings aren’t important.  Maybe it’s an older sibling that abused you.  Or a parent […]

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Masculine, Feminine and Inner Child Energies + Sexual Polarity

You can take social situations (two or more people) and sense what type of energy the situation needs – masculine energy, feminine energy, or inner child energy.  You can also look at your own life and see what energy is out of whack.  I also use inner child because even though children grow up to […]

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What If I Hate People?

I want to say that I’ve been here, and it’s not a fun place to be. When you think about it…did you always hate people? Were you born hating people? Babies don’t hate, so it just leads me to believe there was something that made you hate people – possibly someone violating your trust / […]

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Can Social Skills Be Learned?

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used to create them.” – Albert Einstein Can Social Skills be Learned? Hell yeah! and when the student is ready, the teacher will appear! So how do you get ready for the teacher? The best way I could describe this process is surrender.  Surrendering your way […]

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Social Acceptance

I was talking with an accountability buddy of mine about times where felt I was playing too much defense socially about different interests and values I had and how I resolved those situations.  She eventually said, “You should write about this”.  So…I’m writing about this 😉 Most people experience acceptance on some level, but it […]

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The Most Important Social Skill

I say throughout this course that I learned social skills from a friend. I look back on that experience being around him, and I can say for sure I had a completely different outlook on relationships / people / social skills after being around this guy.  So, what did he really teach me that I […]

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