You can take social situations (two or more people) and sense what type of energy the situation needs – masculine energy, feminine energy, or inner child energy. You can also look at your own life and see what energy is out of whack. I also use inner child because even though children grow up to become adults, all people walk around with a child version of themselves inside.
Masculine energy / qualities –
- Self care for strength and power
Why would the masculine want to go social: To produce / accomplish
- Self care for beauty
- Curiosity and Wonder
For example, let’s say it’s you and group of friends just talking, and you start to sense the conversation getting a bit stale and boring. This might be a great time to suggest to go somewhere fun (child energy). Let’s say everyone agrees. Now more masculine energy is needed to provide organization and direction. Someone might have to make reservations, maybe someone gives orders to people, maybe someone else takes care of how to get there through an Uber or driving everyone there. You want to accomplish getting all the people to the destination safely and as quickly as possible with everything they need (masculine energy). The whole point of this adventure was to connect and have a good time (feminine energy).You can also use these energies to look at your own life and see what energy is out of whack.Do you feel like you lack purpose or direction? Is nothing really getting accomplished? Do you feel like your life has no order or organization? Your masculine energy is out of wack!
Are you isolated? Do you feel like you have a lot of unmet needs? Do you feel a need to connect? Your feminine might be out of whack.
Are you bogged down? Do you feel like you’re in a rut? Do you feel like no matter what you accomplish it will feel hollow and empty? Do you feel like your life needs more excitement? Adventure? This is child energy.
These energies all work in concert with each other, so if you want more masculine energy, you might look to feminine and/or child energy. Let’s say you want more purpose or direction (masculine). You might explore your curiosity (child energy) and research possible new directions that you think you’d like or that you feel intuitively called too. You might connect (feminine) with someone who’s already been on a path you’re curious about to gain insights on their experience going down that path and inspiration to go down the same path. If you ultimately decide to go down the new path, it could bring on a completely new sense of purpose and direction (masculine) – the energy you wanted more of to start.
The more you can go into each energy, the more you can recognize what each situation needs. You become more confident in this sense the more you condition yourself to act on your own senses and intuition.
What is your strongest energy currently? All they all well integrated? What energy do you intuitively feel is off? How can you bring in the other energies to balance it all.
Yes – “like attracts like”. If you are spending a lot of time in your masculine energy, you’ll resonate with and attract more masculine energy. The same with feminine energy. However, sexually the masculine and feminine work in polarity. If you want to attract more masculine sexual energy in your life, go more into feminine energy, and vice-versa.
The same friend I met who taught me a lot of social skills, also was an inspiration here. I saw women respond to him very differently than everyone else I knew. Women were always around him everywhere we went, and they were always flirting with him and showing him so much affection. He also usually had a girlfriend. So…it inspired me to learn what he was doing differently than me or anyone else I knew. It was the first time I remember being THAT inspired to take action on how to better to relate to women. So I got into dating material and started reading pick-up material, audiobooks and listening to Youtube videos and experimenting myself – and it all led me to masculine energy. All this stuff I was reading and listening to was just pointing me to becoming the best man I could be. Duh. Of course a woman in her feminine would be sexually drawn to a man in his masculine. I had so many great results going that direction that I haven’t looked back since.
Here are a few additional notes:
- These aren’t set in stone and these energies are always in motion.
- Masculine isn’t necessarily linked with man and feminine isn’t necessarily linked with woman. Everyone has both energies to some degree, but most men’s dominant energy is masculine and most women’s dominant energy is feminine. For some, it’s less about the gender but more about the energy.