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Think about the people in real life you spend the most time with now.

If you find that your social circle always wants to debate or argue with you…

If you feel like you always have to defend your point of view…

If you feel like you’re being excessively made fun of…

If you feel annoyed them them consistently…

If you feel like you’re being drained by these people…

if you find you’re rolling your eyes in annoyance of these people…

If you find your focus is being pulled towards them and their needs too much…

If you find that they bring you down vs lift you up…

If you feel like you’ve outgrown their conversations…

if you feel like it’s a lose-win (you lose, they win) or a lose-lose (ya both lose) relationship…

Then maybe you should find a new social group of people to hang out with.  Possibly, spend some time alone.  Either way disconnect with this social circle that’s bringing you down.

If it’s not the whole social circle (maybe just a few people), disconnect with just those people who are bringing you down.  There is a lot of energy that goes into tolerance of a not-so-hot social circle.  When you align your social circle with your values, you won’t want to go back to tolerance.  Tolerance is resistance to love.

 

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